if you crave unconditional support, validation, approval & love from your friends, family, or boss perhaps its time to dig inside of yourself to see what hole needs filled. do you not feel valuable? worthy? loved? so you wait for them to notice & compliment you. or you become a slave to them hoping they will deposit in your emotional bank account? are you accused of not listening when you truly feel you do? are you the blame of their life going down the drain? do others lie to you & tell you its b/c youre not worth the truth? do they give instructions on how they want to be treated & when you slip up they yell at you for not treating them as told? do they punish you for their own joy? or perhaps they get really tricky & use scripture as an easy out? if so im asking you to self analyze; ask yourself if its truly YOU or is it THEM??? be honest b/c if part of it is you you will need to be responsible for your actions!!!
bad behavior as a cover up looks like this; manipulation, lies, blame game, gossip, taking sides, punishment, hurtful messages out of spite, stealing, self centeredness, selfish, ignorance, etc...i ask you if you are the receiver of this abuse why you feel the need to rationalize with them? are you waiting for the day they will see you for you? do you believe one day they will finally validate you? belive you? accept you?
today, I ask you to STOP! they will be ready to be better when they are ready, when bad behavior becomes meaningless to them. until then leave them in your past & you press thru to better! work at letting go of needing filled by selfish humans. let go of their negative beliefs, let go of their abuse, let go of a relationship that no longer serves your highest good! You are worth more than that! You are valuabe! You are loved! You deserve to be treated decent! Please open yourself up & accept 'the ones' that do not want you to succeed arent that interested in you! anyone who wants to keep you under their thumb for their own amusement is abusing you & youre allowing it! 'they' dont want you to be better, to live in abundance, to love unconditionally, to serve others, why? b/c where would that leave them? I will tell you....with their own kind until they are ready to live the glorious life we are put here to live.
You do have the power to seek what you are looking for, to be what you want to be, to talk how you want to talk, to buy what you want to buy, to dress as you see fit, etc....you don't have the power to press that on anyone else. Some choose to flow in life like water taking the path of least resistance, that's fine if those are the consequences you want back. you will reap what you sow; its a universal law!
YOU also have the power to be honest, serving, humble, bold, fearless, joyous, loving, content, peaceful, & not fall subject to drama, chaos, & abuse. If you are NOT the problem, there is NO solution! remain blameless
now, go think about this!!!!!
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